Thursday, April 30, 2009

What to Wear to a Wake...on Very Little Energy...

Okay, admittedly this is a post that is a bit weird...what to wear to a wake, but after I posted my review of the necklace, I saw that people could benefit from what the heck to wear when you need to appear a very "certain" way.

I literally got off the plane from DC to CA and then with my family hightailed it to the hotel where I had about three and half seconds to get ready for the wake. Fortunately, I knew before I left what I was going to wear. The Tuesday before I left for CA (April 14, 2009), I wore a very similar outfit to school. You may remember it from this post. Since I hadn't worn it long and it was very fresh, I decided to just wear the darn outfit again (obviously with different undergarments, I am not a heathen). I changed it up, though. I wore a bright pink short-sleeved cashmere cardigan from J. Crew (Summer 2008) and the skinny patent leather belt in root from J. Crew (this winter 2008). I wore the grey Alessia peep-toe heels with this (figured it wouldn't clash with the belt too badly).

My main concern was to look nice, formal, yet more relaxed than I would need to be for the actual funeral. I think this outfit is exactly what is needed at event like a wake. (I went way more formal and classic for the funeral itself.)


Here is the full-length view.


Full-length view with the cardigan. The flash failed to fire properly, so I just pumped up the "fill-light" in picasa...that is why the image is so grainy.


Here I am with CW. She has only one piece of black clothing, so I knew I had to reserve that for the funeral, so I put her in one of Rex's old "formal" baby outfits...I realize she looks like a boy, but at least she was dressed right for the occasion. I forgot to put her bow in her hair (which definitely helps with the gender confusion).

Please bear in mind that I was EXHAUSTED when these photos were taken. The wake started at 10 pm Eastern time and we didn't get done till nearly midnight Eastern time.

I hope this helps some of you all out there who may be faced with such an occasion in the future.

5 comments:

HeidiG said...

You don't look exhausted at all, you look radiant. But put CW in the pic and you always do! Love the outfit - excellent re-usage (thanks for the assurance that you are, in fact, not a total heathen.) Very helpful info.

I really need to start wearing belts. One of these days...

ashley said...

what a chic outfit! love the belted top and that s/s cardi tops it off perfectly! :)

Anonymous said...

You look lovely and very appropriate, and the behbeh is squinchable! Too cute for words.

dinagideon said...

HeidiG: Well, I felt tired. :) Isn't CW ridiculous? What a cutie-patooty.

I am wearing yet another outfit with a belt today. It will eventually make its way onto the blog. I would love to see you in more belts!

Ashley: That cardi is one of the best purchases I have ever made...it works with so many items I already own. And thank you for thinking it is chic. ;)

Anon on May 4: So sweet of you to say, and I love that you say that my behbeh is squinchable. I am totally going to start calling her that...LOVE IT!

HeidiG said...

That would require me actually getting a belt. :) (like I said, one of these days...)